Wednesday, January 22, 2025

Liam Lives on in a Different Way

 

 walk with Me...It's not physical anymore

but we can do it

spiritually

Liam taught me in his death

there is another world of grief and loss and love and understanding and shared pet parent stories

and I am in it 

and totally moved by the expressions of sympathy and solidarity through the condolence gifts and cards we have received

see collages below

gifts and cards

and generous donations in Liam's name to Animal League and to Greater Good

and the hundreds of Social Media messages on Insta, FB and Twitter (X) as well texts and emails

AND

I received Liam's paw prints and Paw impression from our Vet through Pet Meadow

Unexpected...my first time...I did not know...New Year's Eve 12/31/24 

Liam came back

I was 

VERKLEMPT

I created a thank You collage

my thank you collage to Garden City Vet whose staff and Doctor Buscemi

signed personal notes see top left

 oh and the house

the mess at the end

Home Hospice is a commitment and a gift and a full out cleaning job

rugs and floor and couch

Liam had bleeding lipomas and half the time could not make it outside to do his business


we will rip up the rug, get new furniture and have the floors cleaned: all of it doable 
 the furniture is very old
thank you Liam for propelling us to get rid of this stuff that Stanley Steemer refused to clean


 

the last night and day and minute of Liam's life

Liam had a bleeding lipoma on his face

 
people shared their coping mechanisms and what they did to memorialize
special tribute walls
garden stones and flowers
tabletops with ashes and photos
I liked these ideas
I made a
 Liam tribute nook and populated it with Liam themed memorabilia 
 
I like touching his collar
I took it off his neck immediately before his death and was surprised to see a bald neck ring
of course no hair grew there 
wow
never knew 

I put my fingers in his paw print  and smile at his inked paw prints
"Liam, you got inked!"
 

I gaze on the shells, rocks, pothos plant in a gifted vase
all collected and meaningful items
 some of you will recognize your contributions  
thank you
I talk to Liam
yep
I do 
My first born
My  first dog
Liam
who made me a 
MOM

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