Sunday, November 29, 2020

I Dont Want a Sibling

July 2020

Liam talking

My Mom has been claimed by an outdoor cat.  She has named her Colleen. I have tried to kill Colleen. No luck yet.

I don't want a sibling

 

Mom is extremely allergic to cat dander. Otherwise I guess I would have been a cat.

July 30 2020 

I am the only child. But a cat has crept into my portrait. see collage



August, September, October 2020
 

Carol talking

I wanted to do TNR but due to Covid very few options are available. All of TNR stopped during the pandemic Lockdown

what is TNR?

 https://www.neighborhoodcats.org/how-to-tnr/getting-started/what-is-tnr

Colleen came in July.  brought by her Mother.  Sat under Paul's car.  I fed her,

Here is a link about cats you may see wandering about

https://www.alleycat.org/resources/feral-and-stray-cats-an-important-difference/

and it went on for a few months.

 

Fall arrived and some cold days. I  knew I had to do the right thing and TNR

My Sil Gail lent me a trap

Nov 1 2020

 It was done

T (trap)


Nov 2 2020

N (neuter)

delivery to Garden City Vet

after a bit

the vet calls

seems we have a male cat

and just like that

Colleen 

became

Colin

return home same day

recovery in the ccc 

What is the ccc? Carol's cab cove

 

Liam and Colin in a face-off at the door of the ccc

 

I feel compelled to help. we had a outdoor cat in the nineties. Ginger left an abusive home down the block and chose us. Lived outside for 9 years.  Would not come in as the abuse had occurred inside.  But I do not feel I did enough. I was ignorant. I could have helped her more  The universe has given me a second chance

Colin inside the ccc

 Is Colin feral

The difference between stray and feral cats
While stray and feral cats share some commonalities there is a big difference. Stray cats are socialized to humans – in most cases they were once pets who have either become lost or were, unfortunately, abandoned, while feral cats have had very limited (or no) interactions with humans and have reverted to a wild state. Stray cats may become feral as their contact with humans dwindles or, in a happier scenario, become loving pets again if they are taken in.
 
Feral cats typically fear humans. In most cases, unless they are very young at the time of adoption, they do not enjoy living indoors if someone were to take them in. They do, however, bond with their colony. Although you might wish to rehabilitate a feral cat, if they are not socialized by about 5 months of age, it is almost impossible to turn them around. They are best left to live their lives outside.

ferals don't meow at humans

Colin does

They don't look at you

Colin does

in fact his intense focus on me was what won me over in July

https://petcentral.chewy.com/can-you-domesticate-a-feral-cat/

He is 6 months old.

he will be an outdoor cat. 

Then maybe an indoor cat later on

 he has two houses 

an outdoor in front

an indoor one inside the ccc


Colin has received a gift

  November 16

I began thinking Colin was restless and confined and unhappy

I thought I would release him

November 17 2020

R (release)

I went into the ccc to take out some summer items, Colin got spooked. jumped up to the door top, the screen piece fell towards the outside and in a second he was half in and out. I called him to come down then ran to the outside. He jumped, ran across the yard and disappeared. And so the decision was made.

Colin had been in the ccc for 16 days

November 18 

Colin came back. I tried to entice him back into the ccc with tuna. Came to the door.  I don't want him as a prisoner as he was for 16 days but as a come and go guest who has shelter in bad weather.  He has the outdoor house in front. 

The ccc is better though as I can sit with him and check from the window.

For now I am a dog Mom and Aunt. 

Liam looking. 


I am Colin's Mom as well. Next shirt.

I feel I have fulfilled my promise to Ginger and that the universe is okay with me. I will not give up though.

 Colin now comes to the side door

will not let me touch or pet. But wants me to watch him play and stretch. kinda like kitty porn show


Liam has a brother

for now

modus vivendi

Woof, Woof

Meow Meow